My journey toward a vegan lifestyle began unexpectedly—through the innocent wisdom of my child.
When my son was five years old, he joined Jain Pathshala. One day, he came home with a question that stopped us in our tracks. He said, “It takes 2,500 silkworms, boiled alive, to make just one sari. So why are we wearing silk?”
His words pierced straight through layers of habit and tradition. My wife and I sat with that uncomfortable truth. That very week, we decided to stop buying and wearing silk—no more saris, scarves, neckties, or anything that caused such silent suffering.
The following year, I became a Pathshala teacher myself. Before teaching children, I felt a deep responsibility to thoroughly understand Jain principles and philosophy. As I studied more deeply, something began to stir inside me. I realized there was a gap—a painful disconnect—between what we teach and what we often practice.
Week after week, I would teach ahimsa—non-violence in thought, word, and deed—yet in my own daily choices, I was still supporting industries built on harm. I found myself inventing “reasons” and excuses, small justifications to avoid changing my habits. That realization felt heavy. I felt like a hypocrite, asking children to embrace compassion while I fell short of it.
Adopting a vegan lifestyle became the immediate and obvious step. It was my way of aligning my actions with my values, of living the principles I was teaching. It was not just about food but about integrity—about truly honoring ahimsa in every aspect of life.
This year marks 30 years since I made that choice. Over these three decades, this lifestyle has gifted me alignment with my values and vibrant health—free from many of the diseases that trouble so many at my age. I feel lighter, stronger, and deeply grateful that my choices also support the environment, reduce harm to countless beings, and lower my carbon footprint.
And here’s a little bonus: I still have a full head of (mostly black!) hair at the age of sixty-eight. A small but joyful testament to a life lived in compassion, balance, and mindful care.
Looking back, I see that one simple, innocent question from my son sparked a lifetime of transformation—one that continues to ripple outward in compassion, health, and care for our planet.


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